ABBA – When All Is Said and Done: A Farewell Painted in Acceptance
In the tapestry of pop music history, ABBA stands out as a group that redefined the genre with their infectious melodies, soaring vocals, and introspective lyricism. Among their vast collection of hits, “When All Is Said and Done” occupies a unique space, a poignant ballad that explores the themes of love, loss, and the bittersweet acceptance that comes with the end of a relationship.
Background
Released in 1981 on their album The Visitors, “When All Is Said and Done” marked a turning point for ABBA. The group, known for their exuberant pop anthems like “Dancing Queen” and “Mamma Mia,” began to delve into more mature themes, reflecting on the complexities of human relationships. This shift resonated with fans, solidifying ABBA’s place as a group capable of profound emotional depth alongside their undeniable pop sensibilities.
The song’s narrative unfolds with a sense of shared history and quiet reflection. The lyrics, penned by Björn Ulvaeus and Benny Andersson, capture the bittersweet acceptance that can follow the ending of a long-lasting relationship. Lines like “Slightly worn, but dignified, and not too old for sex” paint a picture of a love that has matured and weathered life’s storms together.
The chorus serves as a poignant refrain, acknowledging the shared journey and expressing gratitude for the love that was shared. The melody, melancholic yet hopeful, perfectly complements the lyrics, creating an atmosphere of bittersweet acceptance.
“When All Is Said and Done” is not a song of anger or recrimination. It’s a testament to the enduring power of love, even after the embers have faded. The song avoids sentimentality, instead opting for a mature and introspective approach that resonates with listeners who have experienced the complexities of love and loss.
The song’s arrangement is a masterful blend of pop and adult contemporary elements. The instrumentation, featuring piano, strings, and subtle percussion, creates a backdrop of understated elegance. Agnetha Fältskog’s and Anni-Frid Lyngstad’s vocals are a highlight, their harmonies conveying a sense of shared experience and quiet understanding.
“When All Is Said and Done” has become a staple of ABBA’s repertoire, often included in their greatest hits compilations and live performances. The song’s enduring popularity is a testament to its ability to capture the universal emotions of love, loss, and the bittersweet acceptance that comes with the changing seasons of life.
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Lyrics
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Here’s to us, one more toast, and then we’ll pay the billDeep inside, both of us can feel the autumn chillBirds of passage, you and meWe fly instinctivelyWhen the summer’s over and the dark clouds hide the sunNeither you nor I’m to blame when all is said and doneIn our lives, we have walked some strange and lonely treksSlightly worn, but dignified, and not too old for sexWe’re still striving for the skyNo taste for humble pieThanks for all your generous love, and thanks for all the funNeither you nor I’m to blame when all is said and doneIt’s so strange, when you’re down, and lying on the floorHow you rise, shake your head, get up and ask for moreClear-headed and open-eyedWith nothing left untriedStanding calmly at the crossroads, no desire to runThere’s no hurry anymore when all is said and doneStanding calmly at the crossroads, no desire to runThere’s no hurry anymore when all is said and done